A tale of love lost, returned and…
… The guy and the lady “met” through S.
… S is the guy’s cousin and the lady’s “little big sister”.
Living in different continents, the guy and the lady communicate via chat, emails and text messages . It eventually blossomed into something special and reached to a point wherein they were already discussing about wedding details, house structure, how many kids they would like to have, etc.
Sadly, the plans did not push thru and the “virtual” relationship was abruptly cut due to lack of communication. Later on, the lady learned from S that the guy got married and got divorced after five to six months of marriage.
The communication between the guy and the lady resurrected after few months. An opportunity paved the way for them to be in the same time zone in which gave the guy a chance to visit the lady and “propose”. Is it happily ever? 😉 Think again… Last minute, the guy chicken out due to petty (childish) reason. O_O
For eight years, the guy’s hot and cold treatment on the relationship made the lady slowly realize that the guy doesn’t really know what he wants in life. Now the guy is in his element again… showering the lady with songs this time. Yes, the greetings and songs played on air (magic and wave radio) are heartwarming and sweet. However, is this the only medium to express ones love to a lady? If you call it love that is… Maybe its just a “hard habit to break”?
Listening to the continuous exchange of songs on air is pretty exhausting and it causes extreme patience to run out. Why can’t the guy collect himself and earn enough guts to meet and directly talk to the lady in question? Hmmm… no balls?
Words and songs are sweet but these are not enough. It should be coupled with consistent actions. Complacency will kill whatever that is blooming. If you want it to grow, constant nurturing is the key.
Whether you agree or disagree, thecuriousme.com totally agree!
Lesson to be learned:
Grow up. Be a man.
Prove your words with actions.
You deserve someone a LOT better.
The guy is such a weakling.
Live your life.