I’ve been asked a gazillion times when will I get married and it’s like a broken record that kept playing in my head whenever I hear that question. Sometimes, I still get irritated no matter how hard I try to play it cool. :p
I’m in my early 30s, and so what? As they say, life begins at 40. Ha! At any rate, I’m also human and I long to get married someday. However, entering the married life for the sake of having a husband and kids doesn’t appeal to me.
I could have been married a couple of years ago but I opted not to. Although, I suffered a lot of turbulent events because of that, it’s been one of the wisest decision that I’ve ever made in my entire life. My life could have been hell or even worse. Whew!
I definitely want to get married someday (sooner rather than later) BUT with the guy whom I would love and look forward to see and be with, day in and day out, in sickness and in health, through good times and bad times, through hardship and prosperity… Awwwwww…. I’m getting cheesy. :p
I want to spend the rest of my life with someone whom I really really really want to be with. Adoption will be an option if I can’t have kids by then. Also, I can just travel the world, earn buttload of bucks and find myself a good home for the aged to take care of me when I get old if I don’t crosspath with my “guy”. 🙂
Anyway, below are some of the standard replies that I’ve formulated to the frequently asked question, “when are you getting married?”:
- in God’s time
- Reaction: they look at me in a very strange way then shut up.
- tomorrow, venue: Jollibee (Filipino version of McDonalds), food: kiddie meal (toy included which served as a souveneir)
- Reaction: They laugh and say that I’m funny. Some actually believes it though. whoa!
- next year, it will be in Las Vegas
- Reaction: “Oh! How can we attend, We don’t have a budget for the airfare”
- read thecuriousme’s wedding article
- Reaction: None yet. I’ve just thought of it.
It seems like I’ve managed to turned the tables on them. It tickles my funny bone whenever I see their reactions. Ha!
Single ladies rock the world! 😀 Aja!
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To stay single is not a crime. Get married for the right reason, not for the wrong one. The right person will come at the right time, in the right place.
@the soulful vixen I totally agree! 😉
well nothings wrong in asking..
@ely yeah. but if you are asked gazillion times… that’s something. whoa! LOL
Perhaps I don’t want you to see me if ever I will asked you that question.
Good thing I’m miles away from you. Hehe but seriously,when are you getting married? LOL wait, am I missing something?you haven’t introduce me to the groom yet… Or is he in London to meet the Queen still…
Oh dear no rush, enjoy the freedom of being single.He will be soon on its way, the love of your life. 🙂 it’s all worth it after all!
@frithie thanks much! you’re really a very dear friend. maybe he just got stuck in a traffic jam. hahaha
Remember, life is always a compromise, you can’t have all the best and none of those stupid things 🙂
Gurls don’t have the luxury to wait until the right guy comes knocking on you and say hey..let’s get it on .. @33 well not yet too late hehe
but of course, bottomline be happy and enjoy life to the fullest !cheers!
@allan whoa! way to go Allan! hehehe i love the way you lie. LOL
enjoy being single…no hassles…no responsibilities…lol…who cares if gazillion people are asking u that same question over and over again…dont mind them…dedma-tology effect hahaha…im 25 and my bf is planning for us to get married but im thinking twice now…hahaha…im enjoying my life being single and working abroad…but no questions about the love i have for him and his kids…but i hope someday i be walking down the aisle with him and with his kids as ring bearer and bible bearer(lol…they both big now for that)…im loving the life that i have now….
@cookiemonster omg! what a revelation! but i’m happy for you dear… you have found your love of a lifetime and you are enjoying your freedom as well… 😉 just take it slow. you’re still young. see you! mmmmwa!
a revelation that i’ve kept for so long from my love ones…but i hope everythings gonna work out fine…you’ll be meeting him soon(and the kids) =) i love everything about him…see soon…mwuuuuuah..God bless
@cookiemonster don’t worry. everything will fall into place. 😉 keep the faith dear…
Riz… mangasawa kan… expired ka na sige ka haha!
@rommel i’m still in the lotto numbers. LOL no expiration. ha! :p
i suppose i could pop the question right now?
@jiffy what question? LOL
mam rhiz…
when are u getting married?
har!har!har!har!
you cant stop me from askin..
>:) >:) >:)
@ely kalorkey! LOL how about you and …. ha! LOL
cge lng mam.. kayam data.. gud things come to those hu rily waits!
@lan thanks nanong…. don’t forget our photo shoots. LOL
I hear wedding bells! 🙂
@jeff really? how come I don’t hear it. LOL
consider adopting? adopt me, package deal. 😀
@jerich how do you define package deal? LOL
adopt me plus 2 makulit girls 😀 oh di ba.
@jerich I think it should be the other way around then. LOL You should adopt me instead of me adopting you. hihihi
Nice Article . . . Pero mag-asawa ka na at masaya ang may family . . . Just pray . . God will give in due time!
@edith thanks po. 🙂 yeah, i would love to get married and have my mini me’s and mini “him”…. indeed God will give in due time. 😉
napabasa ak toy article mo ta kunak man la nu adda ditoy tay wedding updates mo… ta ney, i am wrong gayam peman. hahaha… kantyawan blues about asking, “when are you gonna marry?” OMG! graduate ak ditan. hahaha… God bless!
@brenda hahaha i got u there. LOL
hi, as of now just enjoy being single and have a happy life. being married is a lifetime commitment.
@sonny hi ny, thank you for taking time to visit my site and write a comment. 😉 yup, marriage is a lifetime commitment. kinda scary isn’t it? hehehe
Its so nice to be single,.,.,No heartbreaks!!!!hehehe:p
Go go go Single Ladies!!! Stay HapPy:)
@Jhaniz thanks ganda! Single Ladies rock the world with a big bang! 😉
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@MBN hello