fate

“it’s your fault!”

Another “series” of food for thought from @thenotebookoflove… Read on! 😀

“People will choose to blame their circumstances on fate or bad luck. Very few will admit it’s mainly the choices they have made.

Confidence is admitting who you are, what you’ve done, and loving yourself for what you’ve become, no matter what others think of you.

If you don’t mean something, don’t say it, words are painful weapons that can’t be undone.

I hate those people who only pretend you exist when they need something from you.

If something isn’t happening for you it does not mean it’s never going to; it just means that you’re not ready for it yet.

We keep running after the people who least care about us. Why don’t we just stop, and see the ones running behind us?

Making a difference starts with yourself. Before you can complain about everything else being messed up, figure out what’s wrong with you first.”

One thing that doesn’t apply to me is planning my life. Whenever I intend to aim for something, it will automatically become elusive. After doing several attempts, I finally accepted the fact that planning doesn’t work for me.

Proof? Here you go:

Lovelife. I wanted to get married by year 2000 but it did not happen. I thought, it maybe too early so I extended it to 2005. It “almost” happened. However, some obscure phenomenon hindered it. Thus, this stage is still UNDER CONSTRUCTION. :p

Habitat. Initially, I intended to work in Qatar but I wound up working in Singapore. I planned to settle in Europe for good but I ended up migrating in North America. I’m still in limbo with this turn of events. Maybe fate brought me here? Whatever it is. I’m here to stay.

Work. My goal is to follow my late mother’s wish which is to keep away from the teaching force and my ultimate dream after graduation is to become a Programmer (aka Software Developer or Software Engineer). Yet, I ended up teaching for almost 8 years and did several other jobs but never as a Software Developer.

The above-mentioned are some of the instances which made me stopped outlining my goals and just go with the flow. It`s kinda weird because when I stopped planning my life, things started to fall into place.

Let’s wait and see. Aja!

baffled?

I hope you all had a restful sleep and will be able to share your objective opinion on this matter. Does it sound like an international concern? Maybe… in a way. Ha!

Just a note, this is a true story.
Let’s get down to business.

Click on the links below to get the birds eye view (or should I say, “lengthy” recap? ) about this “hot” topic:

Here’s a quick tip:

Guy is Alex -> the Ex Boyfriend (“class guy”)
Lady is Buffy -> the Heroine
Antonio is Yno -> the New Guy (“cool guy”)

The challenge here is for you to connect the dots! Are you apt for it?

ISSUE:

Alex apparently wants to reunite with Buffy
Yno seemingly wants be a part of Buffy’s life
Buffy is somewhat growing closer to Yno but trying to restrain herself because things seem to be bizarre at the moment.

Consequently, Mitch, Scott, Robert and I (TheCuriousMe) had an absolutely interesting and intense exchange of ideas about the issue. To be honest, I thought the above subject has already been settled but it was re opened one night and then the discussion continued the next morning.

The statement that really left a mark is:

“Know if your heart is in the right place…”

Hmmm… let’s leave it here for the moment. That will leave you time to ponder. Don’t get frustrated. 🙂 Viewpoints of the four (4) “relationship council” will be shared shortly. Until then! 😉