I woke up this morning feeling awful… I had a terrible “nightmare”. The weather didn’t help either… It’s so cloudy and drizzling. It made feel more down than ever. Sigh… Ok, I’ll stop whining. :p
Going back to the terrible nightmare… it was something to do with the person close to my former special someone. In my dream, that person was asking if I’m alright and if I have already moved on. I can’t remember the rest but the impact of that dream is absolutely mind-blowing and heart breaking.
I was disconcerted when I woke up because I thought it was real. O_O I did some soul searching when I was on my way to work and one thing that hit me most is, people tend to forget the following things when things get sour:
Whether in friendship or in a relationship, a good closure is very critical in order to “healthily” move on and have a peace of mind.
If the person involved doesn’t want to accept the closure, be considerate. Give that person a time in order to digest things. In my point of view, one month is more than enough. However, be firm with the decision to end things.
If things get out of hand and the other person becomes absolutely unreasonable and turns into a “wacko” (see related article -> prison cell), ask help from the Police.
To move forward in a flash, cut all possible communication with that person. It can be email, chat, text/sms, phone call or even with that person’s closest friends.
For work related issues such as quitting from a job, it’s always recommended not to burn bridges.
And most of all, have a heart to heart talk with Big Bro!
Have I moved on? YES.
Since when? After it ended.
How about you? :p